a couple with a dispute

 Professional 
relationship counsellor in 
High Wycombe and available online, nationally and internationally. 


Pamela has worked for 30 years locally and online as an experienced RELATE certified couples counsellor, accredited individual counsellor, therapeutic life coach, counselling supervisor and certified open college network trainer. 

She has worked within agency settings and now manages her own private counselling, supervision and coaching practice that specialises in relationship therapy with individuals and couples. 


Pamela provides a separate, comfortable and discreet consulting room at her home in Holmer Green near High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire.


On-line counselling and supervision are now available if face to face work is not possible. 

This means that Pamela's couples' therapy is now available beyond local geographical limitations and is available to clients across the UK and internationally.


Contact Pamela for professional relationship counselling. 


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About me

Life is about relationships - and our nearest are only sometimes our dearest. Relationships can at times become very challenging. 

Mine and my several families' experiences include the challenges that arise from getting and staying married, having and parenting children, relocations, work related issues and career changes, redundancy and unemployment, chronic serious illness, stress, depression, adoption, disability, alcoholism, domestic violence, suicide, bereavement, separation and divorce, merging families, adapting to different life stages, caring for aging parents and, more recently, living and working between different countries.

I offer my clients the opportunity to explore safely and confidentially how their difficulties have arisen and what relief and change is possible. Together we work through what might be blocking them from making the changes they want and consider how and when clients might move forward and out of their stuck positions.
Pamela
Pamela has been married for over 40 years and has 3 children, 3 grandchildren - and 1 granddog!
A couple with a problem

Common problems that I can help you manage: 

  • My partner and I just don't seem to talk anymore - it feels as if we've drifted apart
  • We can't stop arguing
  • There's been an affair - what do we do now?
  • We're having sexual problems
  • Life and work balance
  • Our rows have become aggressive
  • We disagree about our children
  • I'm not sure about this relationship anymore
  • I've decided to end this relationship - what now?
  • How do we help our children cope with our separation/divorce?
  • Life after a relationship ends
A couple attending a counselling session

Couple counselling aims to help partners: 

  • Increase their understanding of underlying problems as well as more obvious difficulties between them.
  • Reduce the power of disappointments and hurts, both past and present, thereby freeing them to discover new ways of relating.
  • Identify where their communications are going wrong and explore new approaches to develop more constructive interactions together.
  • Open a way to greater fulfilment both as part of a couple and as individuals.
Couple Counselling can also help separating partners: 
Clarify their feelings and the choices they could make.
Explore the underlying reasons for their difficulties.
Mourn the loss of the relationship
Make parting as constructive as possible for all concerned.

Couple counselling is open to everyone over 18 years of age. Whether you are married, living together, separated, divorced or single, this confidential service can help you in dealing with your relationship difficulties.
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Call Pamela Duffy Counselling on 07967 127 108 to schedule an appointment for professional help in managing your relationship issues.